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Worship - Loving God when you hurt.
Thou shalt love the Lord thy
God with all thy heart, and
with all thy soul, and
with all thy mind, and with
all thy strength: this is
the first commandment (Mk
12:30).
The Lord is my shepherd: I shall not want (Psalm 23:1).
Cast all your anxiety on Him because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:7).
God will meet all your needs (Philippians 4:19).
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you (Isaiah 43:2).
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you (John 14:27).
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).
The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore (Psalm 121:8).
Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28).
The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. (Phil. 4:5-6, NASB).
Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him. (Job 13:15)
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world. (Jn. 16:33)
Jesus, A Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief (Isa. 53:3).
Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love (1 Jn 4:8, NIV).
"Christianity does not give us a peaceful way to cope with death, it gives us a way to overcome it." ~ Hank Hanegraaff
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. 13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart (Jer 29:11-13).
Solving Problems Through Prayer by Charles Stanley
If you are angry with God, read Job 40.
The roots grow deep when the winds are strong. "And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice." (1 Kings 19:12, KJV).
"God cannot
give us a happiness and
peace apart from Himself,
because it is not there.
There is no such thing."
-C. S. Lewis
“We're not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be”
-C. S. Lewis
“The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That's the deal.”
-C.S. Lewis
"But as many
as received Him, to
them He gave the right to
become children
of God, even to those who
believe in His name
(emphases added Jn 1:12)."
James 1:1-3
"Someone in the Middle Ages
said, 'God nothing does, nor
suffers to be done, but what
we would ourselves, if we
could see through all events
of things as well as He.'"
–Dr. J. Vernon McGee
James 1:3-13
Is there no other way, Oh
God,
Except through sorrow, pain
and loss?
To stamp Christ's likeness
on my soul,
No other way except the
cross?
And then a voice stills all
my soul,
That stilled the waves of
Galilee,
Cans't thou not bear the
furnace
If midst the flames I walk
with thee?
I bore the cross, I know its
weight,
I drank the cup I hold for
thee.
Cans't thou not follow where
I lead?
I'll give thee strength,
lean hard on Me.
–Author unknown
The Psalmist said "weeping
may endure for a night,
but joy comes in the
morning (Ps 30:5)."
We may shake on the rock but the rock is never shaken (Ps 62:2).
"Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive lthe crown of life mwhich the Lord has promised to those who love Him (Jas 1:12)."
What God
Hath Promised
God hath not promised
skies always blue,
Flower-strewn pathways all
our lives through;
God hath not promised sun
without rain,
Joy without sorrow, peace
without pain.
God hath not promised we
shall not know
Toil and temptation, trouble
and woe;
He hath not told us we shall
not bear
Many a burden, many a care.
God hath not promised smooth
roads and wide,
Swift, easy travel, needing
no guide;
Never a mountain, rocky and
steep,
Never a river, turbid and
deep.
But God hath promised
strength for the day,
Rest for the laborer, light
for the way,
Grace for the trials, help
from above,
Unfailing sympathy, undying
love.
–Annie Johnson Flint
An excerpt from John MacArthur's Series: Making Sense out of Suffering:
A few
years ago a song was
written that really says
it. I'll close with
this. It's called "The
Refiner's Fire." Listen
carefully to the words.
There burns a fire with
sacred heat, white hot
with holy flame. And all
who dare pass through
its blaze will not
emerge the same. Some is
bronze and some is
silver, some is gold and
with great skill all are
hammered by their
sufferings on the anvil
of His will. I'm
learning now to trust
His touch, to crave the
fire's embrace. For
though my past with sin
was etched, His mercies
did erase. Each time His
purging cleanses deeper,
I'm not sure that I'll
survive. Yet the
strength and growing
weaker keeps my hungry
spirit alive.
And then this great
chorus...The Refiner's
fire has now become my
sole desire. Purged and
cleansed and purified
that the Lord be
glorified, He is
consuming my soul,
refining me, making me
whole. No matter what I
lose I choose the
Refiner's fire.
And when you can come to
the point where you say
that, you've reached a
level of maturity and a
grasp of the Christian
life. No matter what I
may lose, I choose the
Refiner's fire. The
Refiner's fire has
become my sole desire
because I want to become
weaker so that He may
become stronger.
Revealing your spiritual
character, humbling you,
drawing you to Himself,
displaying His grace,
demonstrating His power,
that happens through
your suffering. Embrace
it and let God do His
refining work.
Read the series:
How God Uses Suffering:
How God Uses Suffering, Pt. 1 2 Corinthians 12:7-8
How God Uses Suffering, Pt. 2 2 Corinthians 12:9-10
When Anxiety Strikes by Charles Stanley (.pdf fiile)
Surviving the Holidays After a Loved One's Death
Answers for one of our oldest dilemmas by John MacArthur
How God Uses Suffering Pt 1 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
How God Uses Suffering Pt 2 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
Death, Dying & Suffering (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Ken Ham
The Purpose of Trails (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
From Trouble to Triumph Pt 1 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
From Trouble to Triumph Pt 2 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
From Trouble to Triumph Pt 3 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
From Trouble to Triumph Pt 4 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
From Trouble to Triumph Pt 5 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by John MacArthur
What is your net worth.....in birds? Part 5a (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Darrell Ferguson
What is your net worth.....in birds? Part 5b (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Darrell Ferguson
Don't Run for Gatorade Part 6a (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Darrell Ferguson
Don't Run for Gatorade Part 6a (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Darrell Ferguson
Life - If we understood everything we would not draw near to him (Rogers). Ro 8: 20-21, Eccl 3:11.
It's time for you to get a life (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Adrian Rogers
Rom. 8:28: a soft pillow for a tired heart (J. Vernon McGee).
7 Things That We Can Learn From The Ant
He that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved (Mk 13:13, KJB).
I will give you the victor's crown of life. (Re 2:10, ISV).
Does my loved one have a body when he/she dies?
Why Does God allow Suffering? by D. James Kennedy
Excerpt: Ecclesiastes 6:1-6, Riches Without Enjoyment by Gino Geraci
"Pain is God's megaphone." ~ C.S. Lewis
The first man (Adam) was made: happy, healthy and holy. When you're body is right, you're healthy. When your soul is right, you're happy. When you're spirit is right, you are holy. That's the way God made us to function (Ge 1:31).
All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Ro 3:23). God loves us even when we are sinners (Ro 5:8). But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Ro 5:8).
Invite Christ into your life. He is a friend of sinners (Mt 11:18-20). He is the source of all joy and peace (Jn 7:38). When you give your heart to Jesus Christ, he begins to take control of your life and make you the person he wants you to be--but your life doesn't have to be absolute perfection to go to heaven. The minute you trust Christ as your personal savior--in that moment you are: eternally saved, eternally secure and God now begins to work on you (2 Co 5:17).
Adam died: immediately in his spirit, progressively in his soul, and ultimately in his body (Ge 2:19). At that time sorrow and pain began (Ge 3:17). When you get saved, you're justified immediately in your spirit, sanctified progressively in your soul, and glorified ultimately in your body (Rogers). One day, the heavens and the earth will be renewed (Re 21:1) and sorrow, tears, and pain will end (Re 21:4). Trust God to meet your needs today (Jn 10:10). If he will do that for flowers how much more will he do for you? Mt 6:28-30. Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well (Mt 6:33). Stanley.
See:
Jesus Friend of Sinners (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Adrian Rogers
All Our Anxieties Pt. 1 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Charles Stanley
All Our Anxieties Pt. 2 (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Charles Stanley
Strength for all Times (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Charles Stanley
Contentment in all Circumstances (MP3 right click and 'save target as' to download) by Charles Stanley
Vid: Step Out in Faith by Nick Vujicic
The One Year Book Of Hope (One Year Books) by Nancy Guthrie (Paperback - Sep 19, 2005)
Jesus Wept by Bruce Marchiano (Hardcover - Jan 1, 2004)
My Utmost for His Highest: Traditional Updated Edition
(My Utmost for His Highest) by Oswald Chambers and James Reimann (Paperback - Mar 15, 2006)
The Glory of Heaven: The Truth about Heaven,
Angels and Eternal Life by John MacArthur, Richard Baxter, Thomas Boston,
and Charles H. Spurgeon (Paperback - May 22, 1998)
J. Vernon McGee On Comfort: Words of Hope for the Hurting by J. Vernon McGee (Hardcover - Jul 1994):
click to view
Death of a Little Child by J. Vernon McGee
Click to view
Bible Promises for Hope and
Courage pamphlet
Over 100 Bible passages carefully chosen to accurately reflect God’s
care. This easy-to-use tool is packed with God’s promises of comfort
and love for His children.
Appropriate for Bible study, personal devotions, or giving to
someone in need of encouragement. CLICK ON PHOTO FOR
DETAILS.
Other transcripts by John MacArthur (Browse by subject)
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