Man Saw Fellow Fan’s Pregnant Wife Texting Another Man, Does Something About It

Response to comment [from a Christian]: [This interesting story caught my eye. At a football game a fan notices a pregnant woman texting another man. The fan decides to tell the man who is with the pregnant woman. Did the fan do the right thing? link]

"The guy would have found out eventually about his skank of a wife/girlfriend (liars and cheats always end up getting exposed). I see nothing wrong with exposing them at the first opportunity."

That's right. The man needs to know that his wife is a dirty hoe (Heb 13:4).

Hoe, hoe, hoe Merry Christmas



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Response to comment from a Christian]: "Most definitely he did not do the right thing."

If you were married to this vermin, you would want to know. Pr 11:21

"I'm sorely disappointed that more people were not really interested in what Jesus taught on this."

The man needs to know the truth to protect his family from the pig.

For there is nothing covered that will not be revealed, and hidden that will not be known. Mt 10:26

"God will move heaven and earth to show you his will." ~ Charles Stanley

"2 Ti 4:18 will deliver me from every evil work. On the basis of the Lord’s present work—strengthening Paul and standing with him (v. 17)—Paul had hope for the Lord’s future work. He knew God would deliver him from all temptations and plots against him (2 Cor. 1:8–10)." MacArthur, J., Jr. (Ed.). (1997). The MacArthur Study Bible (electronic ed., p. 1882). Nashville, TN: Word Pub.

Response to comment [from a Christian]: "I do very much sympathize with you and appreciate the desire to follow the teachings of our master.

However, I think they don't apply here. Because in the church we automatically have responsibility for each other. This is accepted by all those in the faith. We belong to each other and to Christ. And we are told to judge one another and discern. But I can't just go up to some stranger and say 'Hey you're sinning, sort it!' What I can do is be non-judgmental and impartial and merely offer to help. But if my help is refused, which is very likely - after all I am sure the woman would just tell me to mind my own business - then I have only made the situation worse: the woman will be warned and then carry on her deceit with greater circumspection. And if I have only just seen her texting her lover at a football match..."

Love lust (Heb 13:4).

Lust is self gratification at the expense of another (Ex 20:17). Love is self donation for the good of another (1 Co 13:1-8).

"I am not about to exactly find out her address and follow up on the matter. I have no right to follow up on it because I don't have a relationship with the couple that allows me to be responsible for them.  So my only option to do something about it is to tell the husband (or wife in the converse case) because that will resolve the situation for sure one way or another."

Loving your neighbor is helping to protect him. He doesn't want the whore's pagan venereal diseases. He's only as clean as her dirtiest whoremonger.

[Love vs lust, Heb 13:4] "I don't think it is really worth responding to this kind of stuff. But just this once to let you understand that the very scripture you cite is against you. It says that God will judge them. Not you. Trying to do God's work for him because it makes you feel somehow important is not a solution to anything. Get yourself a better self-image and then you wouldn't need to revert to cheap tricks to elevate yourself to the title of righteous man of the moment."

Committing adultery is a cheap trick on another (Ex 20:14, Lev. 20:10–12).

"Love is wickedness if it has the wrong object." ~ Daryl Ferguson Ex 20:3

"Heb 13:4. is, &c.—Translate, “Let marriage be treated as honorable”: as Heb 13:5 also is an exhortation.

in all—“in the case of all men”: “among all.” “To avoid fornication let EVERY MAN have his own wife” (1 Co 7:2). Judaism and Gnosticism combined were soon about to throw discredit on marriage. The venerable Paphnutius, in the Council of Nice, quoted this verse for the justification of the married state. If one does not himself marry, he should not prevent others from doing so. Others, especially Romanists, translate, “in all things,” as in Heb 13:18. But the warning being against lasciviousness, the contrast to “whoremongers and adulterers” in the parallel clause, requires the “in all” in this clause to refer to persons.

the bed undefiled—Translate, as Greek requires “undefiled” to be a predicate, not an epithet, “And let the bed be undefiled.”

God will judge—Most whoremongers escape the notice of human tribunals; but God takes particular cognizance of those whom man does not punish. Gay immoralities will then be regarded in a very different light from what they are now.

5. conversation—“manner of life.” The love of filthy lust and the love of filthy lucre follow one another as closely akin, both alienating the heart from the Creator to the creature." Jamieson, R., Fausset, A. R., & Brown, D. (1997). Commentary Critical and Explanatory on the Whole Bible (Vol. 2, pp. 479–480). Oak Harbor, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc.

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge [Heb. 13:4].

"“Marriage is honourable in all.” The writer is condeming asceticism here. Young man, if you find a Christian girl who will have you, get married. Young lady, if you find a Christian fellow who will have you, get married. I believe that God will lead you to the right one, if you are willing to be led in that way.

Marriage is honorable in all, and sex is to be exercised within the framework of marriage. God gave marriage to mankind for the welfare of mankind. I know I sound like a square, because this idea of living together without being married has become very commonplace, but I must tell you, young person, that you will surely pay for it if you attempt to live together outside the bonds of marriage. The home is the very center of the whole social structure, and it is the very center of the church.

“And the bed undefiled.” There is nothing wrong with sex—except that it is being taught too much in our schools today. When I was in London sometime ago, I learned that they were going to cut down on teaching sex. They found that it led to more rapes in the schools than ever before, and they felt it to be responsible for an epidemic of venereal disease.

“But whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.” “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap” (Gal. 6:7). This is very severe, but after years in the ministry, I have watched many Christians who have tried to get by with sexual sins, and I do not know of any who have been able to do it. Maybe they have not been detected, but they have not gotten by with it; God has judged them." McGee, J. V. (1991). Thru the Bible commentary: The Epistles (Hebrews 8-13) (electronic ed., Vol. 52, pp. 139–140). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.

"Heb 13:4 honorable. God highly honors marriage, which He instituted at creation (Gen. 2:24); but some people in the early church considered celibacy to be holier than marriage, an idea Paul strongly denounces in 1 Tim. 4:3 (see notes on 1 Cor. 7). Sexual activity in a marriage is pure, but any sexual activity outside marriage brings one under divine judgment. God will judge. God prescribes serious consequences for sexual immorality (see notes on Eph. 5:3–6)." MacArthur, J., Jr. (Ed.). (1997). The MacArthur Study Bible (electronic ed., p. 1921). Nashville, TN: Word Pub.

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Should Christians Judge? By Bob Enyart