With the economy in recession and the cost of college
tuition outpacing inflation, many Christian parents may
have to consider public universities for their children.
If your family is looking at public higher education,
you need to prepare your children for what they will
face there.
First, they must expect their faith and values to be
mocked—in both the classroom and campus culture. Not
every professor will openly mock Christianity, but
expect your child to encounter some who are hostile to
Christians. Second, expect your child to be thoroughly
indoctrinated in evolution. Third, do not expect freedom
of speech on campus—unless the speech is politically
correct. Finally, expect your child to be exposed to all
types of immorality, including alcohol and drug abuse,
and sexual immorality.
Your children must be prepared before they enter a
public university. So, how can you help them do this?
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Talk with your children before they start school;
don’t hide anything from them—let them know exactly
what they will face.
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Take a tour of the university you’re interested in,
but not when the school is marketing itself to new
students. Check out the student union, bookstore,
academic buildings, and dorms; and take note of the
signs on display.
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If your children must live on campus, find a
university with gender-segregated dorms, especially
if you are sending daughters away to school.
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Seek out Christian organizations on campus, and
steer your children toward these groups.
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Understand that the university may give parents one
message, and students another. Attend Freshman
Orientation with your children; if the university
does not permit this, see this as a red flag that
something is amiss.
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Realize that the university is ultimately a
business, subject to the laws of supply and demand.
If parents are the primary bill payers, then they
are the university’s customer. If the university is
not providing a satisfactory product to you, then
take your business elsewhere.
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Read the book Fish Out of Water: Surviving and
Thriving as a Christian on a Secular Campus, by
Abby Nye. This is a great resource to prepare both
parents and students for public university.
(Available at
www.AnswersBookstore.com)
Your children can successfully attend public
university and finish with their faith intact, if you
take the time to prepare them while they are still
living in your home.