Tolkien on Marriage, Lust, and Friendship
Ac 3:3
Satan's strategy is: divide, deceive, destroy. 2 Co 2:11, Heb. 13:4
...He also says that marriage is self-denying. "Faithfulness in Christian
marriage entails that: great mortification. For a Christian man there is no
escape. Marriage may help to sanctify & direct to its proper object his
sexual desires; its grace may help him in the struggle; but the struggle
remains." (Carpenter 51)
I pose another question in light of this statement: Can the sacrament of
marriage be a sanctifying agent...
Yes, if he is a believer, he sanctifies her. If she is a believer, she sanctifies him (1 Co 7:14).
...[E]nough so that a couple can be cleaned entirely of lust?
Marriage helps to prevent fornication (1 Cor. 7:2, 9).
Is man the only subject to this lust in a man and woman marriage relationship?
Mostly (Mt 5:28).
Or are all human beings unable to escape lust's grasp?
Escape or die (Ro 5:13, Re 2:7).
He's right (Mt 22:30).